I think you have made it a habit of blaming everything on modi since he has been beating your asses on the regular.
Half of us don't even like modi including me, but when we and our young players see your terrorists killing people near our homes, you will not get an ounce of respect from us
Regarding the older generation humble Indians you mentioned, they were the people who think India Pakistan are some sorta Bhai Bhai because they were there before partition, this new India will not talk with terrorists and killers, we are too far apart now in our philosophies to be friends.
Friendly, maybe someday when you sort out the terror mess in your country.