Did I not say that? That is my point, you've seen dozens of posts, a ballistic missiles with let's just average it out as a 1000kg warhead will kill anything within 50 metres and do serious damage.
Now, take Tel Aviv, 500k people almost. Let's say 5 missiles hit the city in one day (normally much less, and they are normally strategic targets that Iran hit). Those 5 missiles hit but 90% of Israelis are going into shelter, they aren't taking a massive death toll from these missiles and most are targeting something important, not Ben Goldberg's house.
And that's my point, a large city taking a few missiles hits every day (it's not on average but assume), missiles which are mostly destroying targets, i.e a radar, a military building.
Nothing to do with bias, an Israeli airstrike of which hundreds might hit Tehran in one night is normally multiple times more destructive in terms of ordnance. There are countless videos of Tehran looking like there's a dozen huge fires raging in the city.
I favour Iran, I dislike most nations in the region as they have been in a perpetual state of war for 5,000 years but to think Iran is winning militarily speaking is hilarious.