Marriage under UK law. Is it worth it for the man?

[Mobius]

Interesting podcast I came across. It's absolutely horrendous to think that men of Pakistani/Bangladeshi/Indian background have to go through this.
Worth a watch for those in the UK.

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[hussain0216]

Marriage under any Western law is a scam and you will be trapped

Why do you think marriage rates have collapsed in the west

 

[Mobius]

It's a real shame brother. I've had a close friend who has gone through this and he is not the same person after the ordeal.
He thought he was bring a "traditional" spouse over but she done him over, almost like she was following a script.

Divorce rates are also through the roof.

 

[Watandar]

I think the problem is that there are lot of genuine cases of DV as well in Pakistani households.

 

[safriz]

These cases are rare in Pakistani UK community, but do happen.

Likewise its not limited to girls born in the UK. One of my close friend's nephew went to Pakistan to marry a girl, and brought her to Manchester.
The boy was 22 and the girl was 19 i guess.
The girl straight up started complaining that she is bored and doesn't like UK. Reason was that she had to do house work, as unlike Pakistan , in the UK there is no tradition of keeping House maids and servants.
Funnily enough, it was just the two of them living in a 2 bedroom house, the boy's dad helped him buy, specifically for the marriage.
So she had to cook for herself, and her husband. She sucked eggs at even that and the lad frequently had to buy food from takeaways. Likewise he had to do the dishes himself, as she wont .
On day 15 she disappeared.
Upon Checking CCTV , turns out , she was picked up from her Husband's house by one of her Dad;s relative in Manchester.
When that guy was approached and asked , he said that the girl's dad asked him to pick her up and drop her at Manchester airport, as she was flying back to Pakistan.
When the Boy's parents rang her dad, he simply said that his daughter is not used to doing any house work, and wants divorce.
The poor boy was devastated as his family and him spent 30,000 GBP on this marriage, all expenses included. Then the emotional trauma on top of it, as he did nothing wrong.

All the Tiktok and Feminism has got into girls heads, a lot of it in Pakistan.