I am more realistic than you then. I want respect for Pakistan shoved down their throats and up their rears by all possible means.
Answer me this, imagine if they had capable missiles, sows, proper strong air force, trained military .. what would have been the outcome of this misadventure from their side? Would Pakistan be able to afford such a situation (keep in mind friends of your afghan brothers in the East)?
Do not let them become militarily strong ever, it is an existential threat for Pakistan. If they do not show respect to Pakistan, create situation and reasons for civil war.