With all due respect, local Kashmiri in J&K is REALLY pissed right now at Pakistan.
DW reporters covered the conflict while being present in Poonch during the entire 4 days of conflict.
There is a massive arrest and combing of OGWs ongoing in Kashmir and all over India too, all assisted by locals in Kashmir. For them Pakistan is destroying their income due to lack tourism (they had seen massive increase in income for the first time in decades) and Pakistan's attacks are damaging their homes and killing their kids and themselves. So forger "resistance" and without OGWs, sustained insurgency is very hard.
You can have your opinion but this conflict has certainly not endeared Pakistan to Kashmiris in J&K.
None of them apply to Kashmir because of massive entrenchment and presence of Army / LEA in Kashmir. Not to mention locals are really pissed this time around with Pakistan.
Lastly, what you are describing is what happened during 90s. And it failed to achieve any of the goals you wanted.
Not to mention, @Mangeela was talking about military takeover of Kashmir by Militia, which is a very different case.