Yasser76
Elite Member
I will give you a example of the above
I had a second cousin
His dad was a GP {doctor)
He gets sent to a small local surgery in a place called Gloucester
So his two sons go to school in a local all white school
So (this is just an example now)
1- when he was 13 who is the first girl he has a crush on, let's call her Judy
2-as he keeps growing, who is the first girl that smiles at him and holds his hand? Let's call her Rebecca
3- he is 16 now and who is his first girlfriend who kisses him? Let's call her Sue
4-He is in college now and he meets Jill and she gives him his first major sexual experience and sleeps with him
This kids entire experience is with the girls around him who are all white
So if you suddenly introduce him to Brown, traditional, Pakistani Aneesha, he may even like her but he is more comfortable with the whites he grew up with
This is exactly what happened to my second cousin, he does a medical degree, the community sends offers of marriage because he is a good prospect, but he won't agree him mom and day are upset
Then he reveals that he wishes to get married to ******** and she is the blondest, whitest, blue eyed girl you will ever meet, she could be a poster child the Hitler youth
Now he is a doctor, she is some sort of medical specialists and they have two boys
I'm sure they are happy, he comes for Eid now and then,
I've seen her at weddings, wearing Pakistani clothes
The point is that's what happens when your a isolated minority
You don't have enough of your own people, to build a identity and attraction with
You can't take your family to a place with no Pakistani and then expect your kids not to become attached to the locals who are absolute majority
The difference in the UK is that we have big Pakistani communities
To me here the most important thing is if the kids are bought up as good Muslims. Then I am fine with that

