To be honest bro, I just down know. There is something sinister and not right about Pakistani men and women who race-mix. It's a way of defiling, humiliating and degrading yourself when it should never have happened in the first place. Like the example you just gave, a Pakistani women married to a white english "Muslim convert" and his parents not accepting her. That is humiliating, lowering and defiling your self. It means you have no self-respect if you lower and put yourself in situation where the acceptance by others of your race and religion matters.
I myself attended an ALL white and black nursery, primary school, secondary school and sixth form college in West London. The first 18-20 years of my life was like this. There were NO Pakistanis Muslims, indians, South asians, Arabs, Turks, Iranians etc where I grew up and went to school and college. So unlike the vast majority of Pakistanis, Muslims, indians, South Asians etc I KNOW and UNDERSTAND FULLY the psychology, behaviour, attitudes and the character of white and black people VERY WELL. Thankfully now aged 47 I live in an area that is 98% Pakistani and bengali.
They the whites and blacks are COMPLETELY incompatible in terms of marriage and relationships with Pakistanis. They have NO business mixing and trying to enter our communities and WE Pakistanis ALSO have no business in mixing with and trying to enter their communities. That is the natural order. Work with them, be colleagues with and do business with them but LEAVE it at that.