no, more like two guys are having a dispute over the front yard, and one guys say ok, until we both agree, don't dig up the yard and also I will not dig. If you dig I will dig too, so lets leave that alone until we demarcate it.
One guy decides no I will dig, Its mine, then the other guy goes ok I will dig too then, then the other guy gets upset and says how dare you dig, the other guy goes, i said i will not dig unless you dig. Then it escalates where he says If you dig I will stop you and fight you, the guy goes ok, then i will fight back. The first guy goes, oh yeah, I will bring some guys in the neighborhood they will come and fight you with me, you better back down or else. The second guy goes, I'm not scared of your friend I will defend my interests, but don't go sitting on their shoulders and throwing weight around, they might not come and you will end up having to fight me alone.
The guy goes, Hah, I'm stronger, look at these second hand gloves, I think they are better than your gloves, the second guy goes, think wisely you are an old man and getting older, and I have many advantages, and there is a lot more to the fight than a pair of gloves.
Then the first guy goes, YOU SEE, HE IS THREATENING TO KICK MY ASS, UNLESS I GIVE HIM MY YARD.
The second guy goes no, not doing anything like that, i'm saying we leave it alone, have some tea together and come to an agreement, until an agreement, no one touches it. To which the guy goes, Why shouldn't I touch it? I will touch it wherever, why should i not touch it, to which the guy goes, if you dig, i will not stand by, I will dig too. Which then outrages the man again. Then the patten repeats itself over and over again, and then pretends he doesn't understand and accuses the second guy, saying he wants to beat him up unless he gives him land.