This is 200% spot on. The obsession with Pakistan, its people, its women, everything has to do with what you wrote above. They never moved on from the Partition and think its only a limited time because Pakistan will merge back into India. They haven't stopped towards this goal.
Indians have consistently and effectively done the following:
- Their media non-stop obsession with Pakistan: They are building a narrative that Pakistan is some form of a breakaway region and hence can't stop talking about it in aggressive terms.
- Refusal to discuss any bilateral issues while claiming of some mythical cross-border terrorism perpetuated by Pakistan and ISI: The Indians very cleverly tried to bring Pakistan under its influence via some form of Indian Monroe Destiny. By blocking third-party from bringing up Pakistan and Kashmir, The Indians were implicitly implying that its an internal matter of India; thereby explicitly claiming Pakistan as part of their union.
- Map of a united South Asia in their parliament: One of the most obvious escalations of the Indians putting up a map of a united South Asia. They claimed its from some ancient empire but the visual impacts caused the Nepalis to protest it. I'm curious as to why Pakistan didn't protest it. It encroaches on Pakistan, its history, lands, and people?
Why do you think the Indians can't stop obsessing with Pakistanis and their social media. I don't deny there few sensible Indians that genuinely want to learn more and not troll or make vile comments, but the vast majority are the clear enemy and the sooner the Pakistanis rulers openly label India as truly as the enemy of the Pakistani people, the quicker Pakistan can really unify against one enemy.
Right now much of Pakistan is confused given the ruling elites continuous requesting talks, trade, or art relations (speaking of which, someone get that Bi^ch Hania Amir and bring her back to Pakistan and as punishment shave her head and eyebrows as the French did to their women that relationships with German soldiers occupying France).
Pakistanis are confused because on one hands we see them attacking Pakistan mercilessness and on the other hand, Pakistan elites are dying to start a trade and cricket relations. This schizophrenic policy is creating more problems for Pakistan.
Some Pakistanis are contend by just getting by and not aggressive enough. I just don't under where this passively comes from. I grew up in the West, and so have many folks on this forum, and I can easily tell by people thoughts and comments on who grew up where. No offense to the folks in Pakistan, but I've utterly disappointed at the lack of strategic vision. I see the men of the educated elites behave very beta-like with no aggressiveness in them. I don't want an Indian style of right-wing nationalism, but Jesus Pakistanis can even manage basic pride in their nation. I understand things are not good, but someone has to ignite nationalism which can propel a nation to great length.