No bro, you are absolutely right. I ca ntell you from experience.
When India attacked us last month, our army was sitting back, showing restraint, not attacking. We were all going through same emotions
- First happiness at the initial fighter jets downing (much like initial Iranian attacks on Tel aviv)
- Then several rounds of panic suspecting that we had nothing left to fight, while our Army was preserving things and giving the enemy a chance to back down (like smaller Iranian Salvos)
- Then distress when we believed we were helpless. When India started attacking our bases and throwing missiles and we were only sending a few drones at a time (which was to infact slowly exhaust their air defenses for the decisive blow)
- Then coping, thinking something must be there, when even the drones stopped.
All the while our Army and govt were telling the people to stay relaxed, they know what they are doing and its all a part of the plan and not to be impatient.
But then when the decisive moment came they hit India so hard that we were all left in awe. They went with a calculated plan. I see this war the same as our war, Israel is similarly acting reckless and spending all its resources while Iran seems to be playing in a very conservative, patient and calculated manner. It is said that impatience is the greatest weakness of Satan and patience/perseverance is the greatest strength against his planning. So relax, Iran seems to be doing fine and things are coming under control now. there are visible signs of it. Insha Allah it will all go very well for Iran.
We have been through all of this and I cannot blame you, it does become depressing, disappointing at one point, but Iran is a nation defending itself against a strong coalition, it will be tough, you will have to take some blows, but that's a part of war. things can be rebuilt and your nation will come out better, more united and stronger than before.