dude you are missing my point. My objection is to the Pakistani though process. Every single Pakistani says and believes we are the next? Why because our media has been mentally preparing us for being the next for the last many decades so that when it happens, we accept it that yes we already knew it.
Our attitude should be no one fucking dares, not like being arrogant but not accepting such a defeatist narrative. We can't control how others behave but if we have a mentality that no this is not acceptable and we prepare for that and always be ready for that, then its a totally different mindset, creates a totally different psyche.
You never tell your kids you are a failure, you can't do this or that, or someone can bully/beat you. you tell them no you are the best, you can do anything you want, and you'll beat the shit out of anyone who bullies you and then you train them mentally and physically to deal with that problem when it happens.