Don't know how you got to the conclusion that Pakistan wants free gifts from china....when I was talking about American generosity I was pointing out her trait... generosity was not exclusively for Pakistan...does Marshall fund ring some bells?...... bloodless independence ? ... Good lord ! Do you know how many million were killed during partition ?
Do you know how Chinese people handle the relationship between brothers?
1, communicate regularly with each other about their views on things and plans for the future, and take the initiative to care about important things in each other's families.
2, increase communication between the next generation in each other's families. Cooperate to solve problems and challenges that each other is facing.
3 Offer to help each other in difficult situations, but avoid interfering with each other's choices, and only make suggestions at most. Accept differences in lifestyles and values and respect each other's independence.
4. In terms of mutual economic assistance, the dignity of each other should be respected, and conditions or excessive interference should not be imposed or jeopardize the equality of the relationship. The boundaries of help should be clearly defined to avoid unilateral giving that leads to dependence and harms the independence of each other's economies. There are two principles: "亲兄弟明算账 (even with your own brother, keep clear accounts)" and "授人以鱼不如授人以渔 (it is better to teach a man to fish than to give him a fish)".
5. Confront conflicts directly and communicate frankly. If there are conflicts or disputes over interests, they will communicate frankly with each other as soon as possible.
In general, the Chinese attitude towards brotherhood is "needing each other, but not tying each other down". Keeping in touch frequently, respecting independence, and sharing responsibilities are the only ways to make the bond last through the years and become a solid support for each other.
We believe that the relationship between China and Pakistan should be an equal and healthy brotherly relationship. This is not arrogance as you accuse but responsibility and sincerity towards each other. I hope you truly understand these words.