The dating “South Asian” dating app: Vinita Ad Nails Peak Indian Insecurity: ‘Ditch Your Hot Pakistani BF for Our Richer Guys’

[hussain0216]

Race-mixing is disgusting............. .......and will destroy us and our communities.

It's not too much of a problem for us in the UK, although it can happens it's rare

We have big conservative communities


But in the U.S the "American Muslims" are a mess, they are much more GORAfied they are much smaller communities and minority

They are often the few Muslims in a school full of non-muslims and have friends who are all non-muslims

These people as a result are much more likely to partake in the Americanized dating system, have a past and much more likely to destroy their families through this convert marriage nonsense or even the fake last minute before marriage conversion which is a mockery of our faith

 

[313Ghazi]

Ugly ? That's called sultry looks bro and many find it attractive. It's fine if it's not your cup of tea.

If my tea looked like that dosta, I'd send it back. It's been burnt.

 

[Auqab13]

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I saw this Vinita ad of an clearly obvious Indian looking chick dancing, and it perfectly exposes the insecurity dressed up as swagger. Imagine your big marketing move being “ditch your broke Pakistani boyfriend for a richer Indian guy.” That’s not selling romance, masculinity, or chemistry, that’s straight status anxiety with a side of curry-scented cope.

The funniest part? The ad openly admits the Pakistani boyfriend was hot enough to date. The “upgrade” isn’t better looks, charm, dominance, vibe, or raw masculine presence, it’s just a bigger bank account. That’s it. They’re not claiming Indian men are more desirable overall. They’re conceding the Pakistani was already attractive and pivoting to “but we make more money.” Pathetic.

This is peak typical Indian insecurity on full display: the endless GDP charts, FAANG salary flexes, H1B brags, and income spreadsheets whenever Pakistan gets mentioned. Deep down, some know the broader Western dating market treats South Asian/Indian men near the bottom, low response rates on apps, stereotypes around social calibration, accents, arranged marriage vibes, and yes, skin tone obsessions back home. So they compensate hard with money metrics, as if a fat paycheck magically erases everything else. There is already a wide-spread stereotype that in the US, the Indian and Asian men need to earn much higher income to attract an average mate (given the Western beauty standards).

Meanwhile, Pakistani-Americans are crushing it in the US with median household incomes over $108k, one of the highest among immigrant groups, right up there in the top tier. They’re not starving for validation. But a loud segment of Indian online warriors can’t stop the economic dick-measuring to feel culturally dominant. It’s fragile, performative validation-seeking. Real confidence doesn’t require PowerPoint slides proving you’re worthy of a mate.

To normal outsiders, the whole ad reads like a bizarre ethnic fever dream: “Leave your inferior Pakistani boyfriend for a wealthier, slightly different shade [darker] Indian.” This isn’t empowerment. It’s Indian insecurity cosplaying as luxury dating app marketing.

From my experience, Pakistanis can relate with working class American folks of all races , I feel like Indians abroad and even born here cannot. They are in an Indian bubble. They are especially hated by Hispanics, which are practically the future of America.

 

[PAKISTANFOREVER]

It's not too much of a problem for us in the UK, although it can happens it's rare

We have big conservative communities


But in the U.S the "American Muslims" are a mess, they are much more GORAfied they are much smaller communities and minority

They are often the few Muslims in a school full of non-muslims and have friends who are all non-muslims

These people as a result are much more likely to partake in the Americanized dating system, have a past and much more likely to destroy their families through this convert marriage nonsense or even the fake last minute before marriage conversion which is a mockery of our faith

True, you don't really see it in the uk but it could potentially become a threat if we are not careful. As uk Pakistanis we should ONLY interact outside our race and religion when it is absolutely necessary to do so. We must continue to build barriers against those that are foreign to us. It's for the best.

Unfortunately, I have heard from many what you are describing about the small Pakistani communities in america. Very sad to hear. I wish them the best. Race-mixing destroys individuals, families, communities and the purity of one's race.

 

[PAKISTANFOREVER]

From my experience, Pakistanis can relate with working class American folks of all races , I feel like Indians abroad and even born here cannot. They are in an Indian bubble. They are especially hated my Hispanics, which are practically the future of America.

indian americans have been EXTREMELY racist towards hispanics and blacks for over 3 decades. The hispanics and blacks are now turning on indians.

 

[Sainthood 2.0]

True, you don't really see it in the uk but it could potentially become a threat if we are not careful. As uk Pakistanis we should ONLY interact outside our race and religion when it is absolutely necessary to do so. We must continue to build barriers against those that are foreign to us. It's for the best.

Unfortunately, I have heard from many what you are describing about the small Pakistani communities in america. Very sad to hear. I wish them the best. Race-mixing destroys individuals, families, communities and the purity of one's race.

You guys faced violent racism which led to a more insular society
We didn't except for 9/11 and nor are we in huge numbers
Experiences cannot be compared

 

[Sainthood 2.0]

Bro look at the ugly duckling they've got to model for it. Bitch is so mid she must be from the staff who designed the app.

Most non fat women in their 20s are pretty for guys brother don't judge.

 

[313Ghazi]

Most non fat women in their 20s are pretty for guys brother don't judge.

You gen z are too sensitive.

You'd have a heart attack if you lot knew about "hot or not".

The other day on reddit someone rebuked me for referring to someone as a junkie (they'd been using drugs).

 

[Hakwa Nadro]

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I saw this Vinita ad of an clearly obvious Indian looking chick dancing, and it perfectly exposes the insecurity dressed up as swagger. Imagine your big marketing move being “ditch your broke Pakistani boyfriend for a richer Indian guy.” That’s not selling romance, masculinity, or chemistry, that’s straight status anxiety with a side of curry-scented cope.

The funniest part? The ad openly admits the Pakistani boyfriend was hot enough to date. The “upgrade” isn’t better looks, charm, dominance, vibe, or raw masculine presence, it’s just a bigger bank account. That’s it. They’re not claiming Indian men are more desirable overall. They’re conceding the Pakistani was already attractive and pivoting to “but we make more money.” Pathetic.

This is peak typical Indian insecurity on full display: the endless GDP charts, FAANG salary flexes, H1B brags, and income spreadsheets whenever Pakistan gets mentioned. Deep down, some know the broader Western dating market treats South Asian/Indian men near the bottom, low response rates on apps, stereotypes around social calibration, accents, arranged marriage vibes, and yes, skin tone obsessions back home. So they compensate hard with money metrics, as if a fat paycheck magically erases everything else. There is already a wide-spread stereotype that in the US, the Indian and Asian men need to earn much higher income to attract an average mate (given the Western beauty standards).

Meanwhile, Pakistani-Americans are crushing it in the US with median household incomes over $108k, one of the highest among immigrant groups, right up there in the top tier. They’re not starving for validation. But a loud segment of Indian online warriors can’t stop the economic dick-measuring to feel culturally dominant. It’s fragile, performative validation-seeking. Real confidence doesn’t require PowerPoint slides proving you’re worthy of a mate.

To normal outsiders, the whole ad reads like a bizarre ethnic fever dream: “Leave your inferior Pakistani boyfriend for a wealthier, slightly different shade [darker] Indian.” This isn’t empowerment. It’s Indian insecurity cosplaying as luxury dating app marketing.

pure desperation by the ***** but this app is by the pajeetnis I guess, with those kind of looks she must have been spurned multiple times by Pakistani boys and goraas alike and hurting bad:
“Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.”

 

[PakistanLVR]

From my experience, Pakistanis can relate with working class American folks of all races , I feel like Indians abroad and even born here cannot. They are in an Indian bubble. They are especially hated by Hispanics, which are practically the future of America.

Mine too. Pakistanis although have one of the income levels of all groups, but you will find them around Blacks, Hispanics, and even Whites - like they are not trying to kiss the a*ses of Whites like the Indians do. Indians are incredibly racist towards Hispanics. Ive literally seen Indians on Linkedin arguing with other minorities and again using the "economic card" to put the Hispanics and Blacks down. That's their only comeback guess.

 

[Blueishere]

You took the time out of your day to write a post about an advertisment?

 

[hasssanali8998]

You took the time out of your day to write a post about an advertisment?

be ready to be called a jeet now

 

[Jaeger]

They get weirder by the minute.
With this level of creepiness no wonder Indian girls are not even interested;



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Indian males on the world's second biggest dating site OkCupid had the lowest % rate of replies from their own women at 18%.

You do realize that Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Srilankan men and women are considered as Indian race in this survey.

Or did you find separate numbers for those ?

 

[PK781]

You do realize that Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Srilankan men and women are considered as Indian race in this survey.

Or did you find separate numbers for those ?

not in Canada at least.
Here due to big number of immigrants, most communities mostly keep it within their own selves. Rather, the indian muslims feel left out as they're not wanted by many and often struggle for acceptance and Rishtas/proposals are an issue.

I've seen and heard multiple inter-marriages between Pakistani and Indian mix couples.......where 1 is Pakistani and the other is Indian.......oh man, these days such families or couples find it very hard to get the other spouse's a Visa to their own country.......its a big test they put themselves in.......genuinely feel sorry.........and the same when some afghan spouses of Pakistanis, also have difficulty getting Pakistan visas even after marriage and even with kids and all.

Mostly Pakistanis usually stick to their own people MOSTLY here. But the young generation is not (depending on the upbringing and parenting and the level of following faith/religion/culture), at least here in Canada though u will still find some few venturing out.....but generally here we have tons of muslims so the people do try and find muslim spouses.

Thanks to the Gaza and now Iran wars, the muslim communities are waking up and more self-aware and many are reverting back to religion, and realizing the shit thats happening in geopolitics.

I think these apps may be trying to lure their own women/girls back to their own indian communities.......bcaz the gals may be trying to expand their horizons. lol

 

[Watandar]

You took the time out of your day to write a post about an advertisment?

He says he is retired and has time on his hands. Could make better use of it though.