The Armenians want us Turks as partners, not you Iranians!
It is shocking how distorted the Iranian perspective is.
Your cherished ancient Armenians are pleading in Europe for the EU to offer Türkiye something significant in exchange for reopening the Turkish-Armenian border. While you continue to maintain hostility towards Azerbaijan and Türkiye for the benefit of Eriwan, your neighbors are seeking a nearly complete economic and geopolitical integration with Ankara.
The harsh reality is that your hybris in assessing foreign and regional relations/developments is typical rather than unusual in Iran. If Ummah/Muslim identitiy should not influence one's choices; if only detached, harsh, cold rationality is the standard for making policy decisions.
You talk about the region and your neighbors as if Iran is somehow this infallible nation that should reign over everybody in region.
If this war isn't a reality check then nobody can help you.