Well.

What can I say now that you have quoted your PM, "Beggars cannot be choosers"?
As for aggression, I, for one, just don't get it. Let's say there is a man standing in front of you wielding a large knife in a very aggressive manner. What would you do?
As for "Unless a weapon is fired – there is no aggression yet." A complete misunderstanding of the international law was infused in the minds of Pakistanis by their leaders because they were reluctant to take action to save the lives of their innocent citizens.
Article 2(4) of the UN Charter
All Pakistanis on the forum should read the article carefully, please. "threat or use of force". Therefore, Indians sending 72 fighter jets loaded with arms was a current and present threat and danger to the security, territorial integrity and sovereignty of Pakistan. Pakistan was within its legal rights to have shot down Indian jets, even all of them.
For further clarification, this concept of self-defence is derived from the famous Caroline case.
Imminent threat
You started with a street fight metaphor, added a partial reading of international law, and tried to wrap it all in righteous clarity. What came out was noise like a desperate ignoramus running around google for chatgpt for answers.
Let me educate you and hopefully I am not talking to a teenager still looking to graduate high school.
Diplomatic norms exist for a reason.
Nations do not open fire on foreign aircraft unless there has been a direct and hostile act. Words do not count. Presence alone does not count. That kind of discipline is not optional. It is part of the international order. Without it, every tense moment would collapse into war.
Your knife analogy belongs in a 8th grade debate club, not in serious analysis. A man holding a knife in the street does not equal a state conducting air patrols within its own territory. That comparison falls apart before it begins. Governments are not individuals. Airspace is not a sidewalk.
You quoted Article 2(4) of the UN Charter. The section mentions the threat or use of force. That phrase does not apply to aircraft flying in their own skies. You skipped the part where force has to cross a border, violate sovereignty, or signal an attack. None of that happened. The law does not support your claim but you have demonstrated how utterly dishonest you are in trying to push conclusions from reading headlines or a typical Tik-Tok character who only has the memory of 30 seconds. Goldfish can do better.
You left out Article 51 entirely. That article defines the right to self-defence. It states that force can be used in response to an armed attack. Not a show of strength. Not a perceived gesture. An actual attack. The standard is strict, and for good reason. Those define Rules of engagement laid out by the leadership.
You brought in the Caroline case. That doctrine applies only in rare moments where the threat is overwhelming, instant, and allows no time to think. That precedent has been used carefully for over a century. You treated it like a Tik-tok video “Oh apple watches are going to cause you cancer!!” “Run for the hills!”,
The aircraft assembled over time - so did the PAF. As soon as weapons were launched from these aircraft they were fired upon. The actual debate may be why did they fire on only the shooters and not every aircraft in those formations? The answer could be anything from restricted rules of engagement from National Security Council which goes beyond PAF to question of crossing into Indian airspace.
Now step outside theory and into reality.
Pakistan cannot afford to play the role it keeps auditioning for. The economy is on life support. The country survives on bailouts and borrowed money. That is not opinion. That is public record. The military doctrine of countries like Israel works because they have the power and the alliances to back it. Pakistan has neither. High-risk moves without cover do not lead to strength. They lead to collapse.
You aimed to deliver a legal masterclass and ended up performing a monologue of half-truths and misread history. Quoting articles is not enough. Understanding them is what matters.
Your argument has been answered. Your points have been weighed. Nothing in your post stands up to even mild scrutiny. There is no need to drag this further otherwise I will consider you are simply engaging in pointless whataboutism and deal with it accordingly.
Also , because you’re not as smart as your trying to be - you did give away that you are a false flag right in your post.
Who is “your PM”?