If you're intellectually honest, you will find many Pakistani members here supporting the actions and saying things like: had to happen due to "Palestine". Similarly, many members here condemned the act unequivocally
Many Indians (myself included) never ascribed any nationality to terrorist or play the "game". Meanwhile, as you pointed out many Indian media houses were quick enough to paint Pakistan as the issue.
That is the world - it depends on who you want to associate with/engage etc. You want to continue to harp on "bad" actions of Indian members/media - continue to do that. But while doing that, remember the crap in your backyard as well and be as vociferous about that.