@RescueRanger
Just saying that when tribes refused to pay Zakat, our first Caliph waged war not just because tribes broke Islam 2nd commandment but also because they refused to accept govt authority.
Therefore, Jirga's role should be limited. Border, civil laws, land and punishment must come from courts.
You and I can both agree but making these people understand is a whole different ball game. A lot of people on PDF have little or no interaction with these people.
Allow me to tell you a short story - during the 2005 earthquake we were helping escort a British Rescue Team in Bagh and has been sent to an extremely remote village near Arhanga.

Helicopter flight out of Chaklala / Nur Khan AFB.

A quick stopover at Muzaffarabad Stadium to drop supplies

Scenes of devastation as far as the eye could see...

Arrival at makeshift field hospital - where international and Pakistani rescue/army personnel were assisting some 10,000 transient patients with varying degrees of complex needs and pathology.
During this time an argument broke out due to a cultural misunderstanding as the local men would not allow male doctors to treat the injured females in the community - after smoothing out the issue with the local chieftain - we agreed that a female doctor you can see in the photo Above named Lucy would deal with the women.
Lucy got to work and with the assistance of a few local women was able to triage some of the more serious cases for medivac to Muzaffarabad - now came the second hurdle - the men would not allow their women to travel to the field hospital in Muzaffarabad which was far better equipped without a male chaperon - space on the helicopters was finite at best - it's not exactly Pindi Coaches ...
This was another hurdle that we had to delicately navigate and come to a compromise that worked for both parties.
By the evening - we made sure all the patients and the Brits were safely packed up and on their way back to Muzaffarabad before last light. 18 of us local volunteers remained behind in Bagh to assist with the field hospital.
It was at this time I was introduced to the local Khan, who enquired if we would be willing to join them for evening prayers - we all sat down with them and said namaz, he thanked us and also said, thank the foreigners who came to help our boys.
I remember he invited us back to his tent for a humble meal - where he had a AK47 and a lot nearby. And he simply remarked - you know, we are simple folk - all my possessions are in this room, this lota and this AK47.
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The point behind this story - is that we are NO ONE to judge how others choose to live their lives according to their customs and traditions - so long as they do not infringe on the wider freedoms and peaceful lives of the nation at large.